Screening
Qualifications
1. Generous
2. Compassionate
3. Passionate
4. Humorous
5. Sexy
Disqualifers
1. Smoker
2. Superficial
3. Arrogant
4. Immature
5. Insecure
Approaches
#1 Role Reversal
#2 Employ Her
#3 My own
Thursday, August 11, 2011
DAY 9 - Approaching Mixed Groups
Approaches
#1 - 2 girls and a guy sitting down at Yuerba buena park eating. Approached with a simple indirect opener and the group was very friendly
#2 - 2 girls and a guy sitting down on some stairs in front of the muesum. Approached with an indirect opener and the cuter girl of the two seemed a bit sassy like she wanted to engage me in some light banter. The guy seemed mildly uninterested but not rude.
Observations
#1 As I was searching for groups of 2 girls or more I noticed that it was extremely difficult to find these mixed sets. The interesting thing was that the focus I had in finding these types of sets was the exact same focus that I have when I am looking for girls to open. Since I was not looking for "HBs" to open and my focus was shifted the hot girls in 2 sets and by themselves did not capture my attention as much. This is a subtle observation but I realize that if the focus is placed to heavily on "finding" or "doing" something it can create some a bit of tension within. I know that this is an exercise for a skill and to destroy limiting beliefs but I think this realiztion was helpful in understanding how to channel focus and awareness.
#2 They're are way less mixed group sets than there are all female sets.
#3 After doing some many direct approaches it is interesting and different to approach a mixed set without displaying any intent to the girls and allowing them to naturally gravitate to me or not
#1 - 2 girls and a guy sitting down at Yuerba buena park eating. Approached with a simple indirect opener and the group was very friendly
#2 - 2 girls and a guy sitting down on some stairs in front of the muesum. Approached with an indirect opener and the cuter girl of the two seemed a bit sassy like she wanted to engage me in some light banter. The guy seemed mildly uninterested but not rude.
Observations
#1 As I was searching for groups of 2 girls or more I noticed that it was extremely difficult to find these mixed sets. The interesting thing was that the focus I had in finding these types of sets was the exact same focus that I have when I am looking for girls to open. Since I was not looking for "HBs" to open and my focus was shifted the hot girls in 2 sets and by themselves did not capture my attention as much. This is a subtle observation but I realize that if the focus is placed to heavily on "finding" or "doing" something it can create some a bit of tension within. I know that this is an exercise for a skill and to destroy limiting beliefs but I think this realiztion was helpful in understanding how to channel focus and awareness.
#2 They're are way less mixed group sets than there are all female sets.
#3 After doing some many direct approaches it is interesting and different to approach a mixed set without displaying any intent to the girls and allowing them to naturally gravitate to me or not
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